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      "title": "Am I wrong for moving my grandma from the head table at my wedding?",
      "content_text": "Head table is for the wedding party — or grandma always gets a front seat?\n\nI (29F) seated my grandma at table 2 instead of the head table at my wedding. The head table only fit the wedding party. Grandma raised me, so she expected to be up front. My mom says I humiliated the one person who actually showed up for me my whole life. I say the head table is for the wedding party and grandma still had a great seat with the whole family. Grandma left after dinner without saying goodbye.",
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      "id": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/split-bill-water-only/",
      "url": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/split-bill-water-only/?utm_source=owned_feed_json&utm_medium=distribution&utm_campaign=ur-wrong-feed&utm_content=split-bill-water-only",
      "title": "Am I wrong for refusing to split the bill evenly when I only had water?",
      "content_text": "Split evenly no matter what you ordered — or pay for what's yours?\n\nSix of us went to dinner. Five ordered cocktails, appetizers, and steak. I had a side salad and water because I'm saving up. At the end someone said 'let's just split it six ways' — that put my share at $74 for an $11 meal. I said I'd pay for what I ordered plus tip and put down $20. The table went quiet and one friend called me cheap in the group chat after.",
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      "id": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/coworker-took-credit-slack/",
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      "title": "Am I wrong for correcting my coworker in front of the boss after he took credit for my work?",
      "content_text": "Was the public correction fair — or should it have stayed private?\n\nI built the report that landed our team a new client. In the meeting my coworker presented it as 'what I put together' while I sat there. When the boss praised him, I said in front of everyone: 'Glad it landed — I built the model, happy to walk anyone through it.' My coworker went red. Later he said I made him look bad and should have talked to him privately. HR-adjacent people are now 'aware of friction.'",
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      "id": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/roommate-thermostat-space-heater/",
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      "title": "Am I wrong for turning down the thermostat after my roommate bought a space heater?",
      "content_text": "Shared thermostat for everyone — or personal heater for the person who wants it warmer?\n\nMy roommate prefers the apartment warm and bought a small space heater for their room. They also leave the shared thermostat high all day while both of us are at work. I turned it down to a reasonable setting and told them I would not pay for heat nobody was using. They said I was making the apartment uncomfortable and punishing them for trying to stay warm.",
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      "id": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/friend-cancels-every-plan/",
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      "title": "Am I wrong for not inviting a friend who cancels every plan?",
      "content_text": "Protect the head count — or give the unreliable friend one more conversation first?\n\nA friend has canceled the last four group plans, usually a few hours before we meet. I stopped inviting them to a weekend dinner because I needed a reliable head count and did not want another empty seat. They found out through a photo and said I should have talked to them before quietly leaving them out.",
      "tags": [
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      "id": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/uninvited-dinner-plus-one/",
      "url": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/uninvited-dinner-plus-one/?utm_source=owned_feed_json&utm_medium=distribution&utm_campaign=ur-wrong-feed&utm_content=uninvited-dinner-plus-one",
      "title": "Am I wrong for saying no to an uninvited plus-one at my small dinner?",
      "content_text": "A guest list is a guest list — or should family get an automatic plus-one?\n\nI planned a small dinner at home and invited eight people because that is all the table fits comfortably. The day before, my cousin asked to bring someone I have never met. I said I could not add another place this time, and my cousin replied that a warm host would make room instead of making guests feel unwelcome.",
      "tags": [
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      "id": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/location-sharing-boundary/",
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      "title": "Am I wrong for turning off location sharing after constant questions?",
      "content_text": "Keep the shared map for convenience — or turn it off when it becomes a running audit?\n\nMy partner and I started sharing our locations to make pickups and plans easier. Lately they ask about nearly every stop they see, even when I am running ordinary errands. I turned sharing off and said I would rather tell them where I am than provide a live map. They said turning it off made a simple trust tool look suspicious.",
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      "id": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/ai-transcript-ask-first/",
      "url": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/ai-transcript-ask-first/?utm_source=owned_feed_json&utm_medium=distribution&utm_campaign=ur-wrong-feed&utm_content=ai-transcript-ask-first",
      "title": "Am I wrong for asking before my coworker shares an AI meeting transcript?",
      "content_text": "Share the transcript because the tool made it — or ask the room first?\n\nOur team uses an automatic transcript for project meetings. After one call, a coworker posted the full transcript in a wider channel so people could catch up. I asked them to remove it until everyone in the room agreed, because the rough comments included ideas we had not settled. They said the tool made the notes useful and I was treating an ordinary work record like a secret.",
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      "id": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/leave-group-chat-poll/",
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      "title": "Am I wrong for leaving a group chat that never turns plans into plans?",
      "content_text": "Keep every conversation open — or leave the chat that never becomes a plan?\n\nA friend group uses one chat for every dinner, trip, and casual idea. People vote on polls for days, then nobody chooses a time or books anything. I left the chat and told two close friends I would rather make smaller plans directly. Someone said leaving without a goodbye was dramatic and made the whole group feel rejected.",
      "tags": [
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      "id": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/work-app-personal-phone/",
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      "title": "Am I wrong for refusing to install a work chat app on my personal phone?",
      "content_text": "Install the free work app — or keep work chat off your personal phone?\n\nMy workplace moved its evening group chat to a new app and expected everyone to install it on their personal phones. I said I would use it on my work computer during work hours, but I did not want work notifications on my own device. My manager called that inflexible because the app was free and everyone else had already installed it.",
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      "id": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/cancel-shared-streaming-plan/",
      "url": "https://ur-wrong.com/v/cancel-shared-streaming-plan/?utm_source=owned_feed_json&utm_medium=distribution&utm_campaign=ur-wrong-feed&utm_content=cancel-shared-streaming-plan",
      "title": "Am I wrong for canceling a shared streaming plan after no one paid their share?",
      "content_text": "Keep the shared plan running — or cancel after everyone stops paying?\n\nThree friends and I split a streaming plan to keep the monthly cost low. For four months I paid the whole bill while the others said they would settle up later. I canceled the plan and told them they could start a new one together. They said I should have warned them before removing something everyone enjoyed.",
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      "title": "Am I wrong for turning off read receipts after friends expected instant replies?",
      "content_text": "Keep read receipts for convenience — or turn them off when they become a deadline?\n\nMy friends started treating a read receipt like a promise to answer immediately. If I opened a message while commuting or working, I would get follow-up questions before I had time to reply. I turned the receipts off and explained that I still cared about the conversations. One friend said the change made me look secretive.",
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      "title": "Am I wrong for declining a meeting with no agenda?",
      "content_text": "Join the meeting and find out — or ask for an agenda before giving up the time?\n\nA recurring meeting kept appearing on my calendar with no topic, notes, or decision listed. I declined the next one and wrote that I could join if the organizer shared an agenda. The organizer said I was being difficult and that everyone else understood the meeting was informal.",
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