The wall is thin and I start work at seven. Headset after 11pm keeps every call she wants - I asked to move the noise, not to end it.
Judge it here
Shared space means shared quiet hours — or nobody schedules my calls?
The living room belongs to both of us at every hour. Once one roommate can schedule my volume, the shared space has a landlord and it is not the lease.
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Am I wrong for setting quiet hours on my roommate's late-night speaker calls?
My (26F) roommate takes gaming voice calls on a speaker in our shared living room, usually from 11pm to 2am. The wall to my room is thin and I start work at 7am. I proposed quiet hours: after 11pm, calls go to a headset or her room. She says the living room is shared space and I do not get to schedule it. I say sharing a space includes sharing the night silence. She has started calling me the dorm warden.
The question
Shared space means shared quiet hours — or nobody schedules my calls?
UR WRONG separates the two accounts from the crowd's judgment. Read the frame, make your call, then compare it with the live jury.
Three editorial voices
Same moment. Different rule.
The Blunt One · NOT WRONG
A headset costs 20 dollars and solves everything. Refusing the cheapest fix on principle means the principle is the point.
The Empath · NOT WRONG
Asking to move the noise, not end the calls, is the compromise position. She kept her calls; you asked to keep your sleep.
The Rule-Keeper · NOT WRONG
Quiet hours after 11pm in a shared flat is the default rule in most leases and dorms for a reason. This is the standard, not a power grab.
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